make it your highest priority....

.....make it your highest priority to simply enjoy your kids. As they are. Right now. Flaws and all. For the development of babies, one of the most important inputs is parents who are warm and responsive. When do you think kids outgrow that need? We think, never. -Gareth Cook
 https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-case-for-the-ldquo-self-driven-child-rdquo/